Finding Ways.

Finding Ways.


In our life, no wants to be alone or be just singled man/woman forever. But all of us finding a way to enter or to come into a “RELATIONSHIP”. But being single for me doesn’t mean that you are a loner or you’re a looser. Before you enter or go into a relationship you must know to yourself that you are a smart,kind and responsible person. Because some of the people entered into a relationship life says fulfilling wants/desires is the “one” can make them comfortable and feel the happiness. But there’s a greater chance that you can get/feel happiness and comfortable as one when you are single. So me,myself compared the life of a “relationship while you’re studying” and the life of a “single while you’re studying”. Most of my friends and classmates experiencing the life of relationship while they’re studying, while me single but happy. There an situation that my friend experienced, he experienced that every month he have to think what kind of gift or special thing he’s going to give to his girlfriend, because every month they always and "must" to celebrate their monthsary together. One thing when you’re single you have more time to spend with your family, friends, classmate, work and specially to study. Most of the time my friend experiencing this situation, me and my friends usually play computer games after class, after they have their own gf, we can’t play together just because they want to join his gf instead of us. Being in a relation while you are studying can distract mind in studying. Me and my friends and classmate experienced having a gf-classmate, some of my classmate always bully them always shout, laugh etc. just to make talk about in the whole class.Isn’t it funny?Even in work,if you have a girlfriend/boyfriend and you’re together in same department or division.First you must be professional to divide or to separate love to career.So I better say you must be first stable in life and career and be responsible before you enter in a relationship just to fulfill your wants and desires

My 1st, 2nd and Last

Being single doesn’t mean that you are not pretty or handsome. It’s not about your face value or your social status. Some person just don’t want to get involve in that “RELATIONSHIP” situation, they still want their freedom. But they seem that having a partner may satisfy your happiness. But maybe not for them, sometimes they think that having someone make you sick, and irritate because of too much demands, etc.


But for me, being in a single situation, it gives me time, freedom to think of what ideal girl should I get, it makes me prepare for that time to happen.

My single story is kind of funny (for me) even though I don’t have a lot of experience being into a relationship. I’ve been single for five years believing that my status in life cannot handle the demand/s of a woman. I’m still studying, my father is only a technician and my mother is a housewife. We only get our expenses through my father’s job, and it is not always everyday that my father has a work, I also have 3 siblings 2 little brothers and 1 elder sister studying, 70pesos is my only budget for school day. So do you think I can buy all the things that my future girlfriend wants? Or my 70 pesos is enough for a date? I do not think so. Second, it always came into my mind that all girls are liars, they must not be trusted! Based on my experience on the past when I was grade 6 I have a girlfriend then suddenly I just found out that it’s not only me his Boyfriend! We’re two. Imagine two boys in one girl? So that’s where I got my second reason. Lastly she introduced me to her family I will get goosebumps. Shocks! I really don’t know what to act or to say. So that’s why whenever I get to school, I don’t really much get close with girls even though sometimes someone told me that she likes me, I just didn’t take it as an advantage, to pay for that I just teased her so she will be turned off. (evil laughed) >:) WAHAHAHA!

But this single curse didn’t last for a lifetime. When I was a sophomore student of our college university I just got a time to really know one of my classmates and she was Jemalyn Ferrer. The girl that I had known was not like her, she was just a simple person, trustworthy, has a good family and a one woman one man lady. She was nice to me, just why now we are been together for almost 9 months.

That is when I’ve realized that not all girls were the same. They were different in many ways, even though you are still single for now, don’t rush, have patient, just wait for the right person to come to you and maybe he or she will be your “HAPPILY EVER AFTER!.